Chisoxfn Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 It was definitely a wake up call. I had a great time with Laura and now Ill remember her with this promise. Ive also decided to get baptized and attend church regularly. Laura really was my wake up call and Ill never forget her. Wish ya the best man...I can guarantee you one thing, its going to be extremely tough. If you feel for her this way though, give up the drinking and find her...FIND HER Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 How does depression lead to insanity? Relax dude. You don't need to abstain, you need to find her. I cant find her. I wont be able to and Id only tarnish that perfect evening. Therefore I shall carry out my promise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wish ya the best man...I can guarantee you one thing, its going to be extremely tough. If you feel for her this way though, give up the drinking and find her...FIND HER What will be tough? My promise? Trust me, you have no idea how incredibly determined I am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kapkomet Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 What will be tough? My promise? Trust me, you have no idea how incredibly determined I am. So again, just remember this six months from now when temptation rears its ugly head. Cause it will. The world works like that. And so, if you stay on this path, the next "Laura" you will appreciate even more. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chisoxfn Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 What will be tough? My promise? Trust me, you have no idea how incredibly determined I am. I think the promise is tougher then finding her. But I do know how you feel about relationships. All of mine typically blow, but remember, there isn't just one awesome person out there for you. You may meet a few, it all depends. Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder. I still say, you should at least give it a shot and find her, cause she obviously made an impact on you during the short time you hung out with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Thank you much, kapkomet! I shall fight off all temptation! I thank you for your support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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danman31 Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 I cant find her. I wont be able to and Id only tarnish that perfect evening. Therefore I shall carry out my promise. No offense, but $5 says you won't keep that promise? Any takers? Look, being depressed isn't going to do it. You either have to try to find her or move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Bet your money. Waste it. Go ahead. Im keeping this promise as long as I live. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gene Honda Civic Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Bet your money. Waste it. Go ahead. Im keeping this promise as long as I live. just a question willie as i'm reading through all this... How old are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danman31 Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Bet your money. Waste it. Go ahead. Im keeping this promise as long as I live. First of all you only met this girl once. You hardly got to know her. If you did, you would have gotten her name and other stuff that could help you find her. Anyway, like Jas said there are others out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 just a question willie as i'm reading through all this... How old are you? Im 16. And I did get to know her. I loved kissing her but I loved talking to her even more. I didnt have to know her for long to realize shes the nicest person Ive ever met. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soxy Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wow, again, I can understand the drinking (I guess), and the waiting until you're married, and the porn, but no masturbating. Dear lord. Just dear lord. That would make for one grumpy Soxy!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Are you a porn addict? If so I hope you follow my path. Porn is entirely superficial and no one needs it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danman31 Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Im 16. And I did get to know her. I loved kissing her but I loved talking to her even more. I didnt have to know her for long to realize shes the nicest person Ive ever met. Talking to a person once means nothing. You can be friends and be attracted to each other, but just by my personal experience (which is s***, I'm 16) I learn different things about people for a while until I really get to know them. To really know a person takes at least a couple months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gene Honda Civic Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 OK i just finished reading through the whole thread. Here's my advice. MOVE ON MAN. No one has actually died of a broken heart. I'm not being insensitive. I've been in HS before and I've thought that situations were life or death. Trust me, so few of them actually are. Even very recently I had someone who I would classify as the love of my life hurt me to my core. I went on a 2 day bender. by the third day I had moved on. This is the third night of this thread and almost a week since New Years. I think, given willies current state of mind, this thread should be closed, after tonight, for his own benefit. Let him get what he can out of his system tonight, but this is becoming an outlet not for healing, but for further harm. If he has another question or concern regarding this situation he can start another thread. I'd be glad to lend my advice and experience. You can't move forward if your too busy looking backwards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soxy Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Are you a porn addict? If so I hope you follow my path. Porn is entirely superficial and no one needs it. No, lol, I've seen one porn, and I thought it was pretty funny. But, my point was that people are inherently sexual and to deny that is to deny an important part of who we are. So, that was my point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chisoxfn Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Talking to a person once means nothing. You can be friends and be attracted to each other, but just by my personal experience (which is s***, I'm 16) I learn different things about people for a while until I really get to know them. To really know a person takes at least a couple months. Its true, you definately don't know everything about a person when you first meet them. The more you know them you find different wrinkles, different characteristics and I think you pretty much always learn new things about them. I also think thats what makes friends and girlfriends cool, especially when you meet the right one (Right now I haven't and if I have, I've yet to realize it). I do think after a few days, if you spent a lot of time talking you could definately realize whether you want to get to know them further and if they at least match what your looking for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Love at first sight, man. Well, not really, love at first sight is superficial obviously. But trust me, she was awesome. Nice, cute, smart (well she didnt tell me her grades or anything but I could tell from the conversation that she was intelligent). I didnt ask about her morals or anything though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gene Honda Civic Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 To really know a person takes at least a couple months. Speaking as someone who was in a relationship for 6 years, it takes much longer than a couple months. And thinking that you can know someone in that short of time is naive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chisoxfn Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Speaking as someone who was in a relationship for 6 years, it takes much longer than a couple months. And thinking that you can know someone in that short of time is naive. I agree with that. Think of it this way, picture your best friends and think how long you've known them, while I realize that for most people, there best friend eventually is their signifigant other, but before that, you've known your Best friends for a long time, but you have to admit you always learn new stuff and all. Some people know things quicker then others, depends how open and what exactly people talk about. I guess it just depends on people. Some people open up really fast, others need to get to know someone first and feel comfortable with them to open up and some people, just keep things deep down in a vault. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest williestokes Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 I guess someday Ill meet another Laura but not until Im out of this city. Im moving to Pennsylvania. Sox4lifePA, are all Pennsylvania girls as wonderful as Laura? If so, Im running away to live there because Pennsylvania must be Heaven! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danman31 Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Speaking as someone who was in a relationship for 6 years, it takes much longer than a couple months. And thinking that you can know someone in that short of time is naive. I did say at least. This is just to begin to understand. As Jas said it keeps changing because you learn new things about a person all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danman31 Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 I agree with that. Think of it this way, picture your best friends and think how long you've known them, while I realize that for most people, there best friend eventually is their signifigant other, but before that, you've known your Best friends for a long time, but you have to admit you always learn new stuff and all. I agree with all that except sometimes people change. That's not learning something new about them, but it's the person changing. The simplest analogy I can think of is if a person changes which sports team they like. You knew the team they liked before, then you had to relearn the new team they liked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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