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Boy's mother: `She ruined my child'

 

BRIDGEPORT, Conn. -- The boy's mother knew something was wrong when her 8-year-old son began to act out at school. "He tried to jump out the window at school," the Stratford woman said Monday. "He was acting out last year - all kind of stuff." He even threw a chair at another student.

 

Out of school, the boy always wanted to go to a neighbor's house, where he helped a 7-year-old girl with her homework and played games. He'd cry if he wasn't allowed to go. "I'm assuming he wants to go play with the girl," the mother said. Then her older son found a letter in his brother's room that shocked the family and authorities. The letter led to charges that the girl's 29-year-old mother, Tammy Imre, had sexually assaulted the young boy.

 

Imre, a part-time receptionist, was charged with first-degree sexual assault, fourth-degree sexual assault and risk of injury to a minor. A judge set bond at $250,000 Monday and deemed the thin, blond woman a danger to the community. According to the arrest affidavit, Imre told investigators she considered the relationship "like a fantasy and she was the girlfriend and he was the boyfriend and that someday they could end up together in a relationship."

 

Her hands and ankles shackled for the brief court appearance, Imre did not enter a plea and appeared distraught as she was led from the courtroom. She is due back in Bridgeport Superior Court on Nov. 30. "I just feel justice needs to be served and it's going to be," the boy's mother said Monday afternoon. "She ruined my child." The third-grader still attends school but is now in counseling, his mother said. The Associated Press does not identify victims of sexual assault or their families.

 

Evelyn Imre, the suspect's mother, said her daughter had "a little mental problem" but she declined to disclose details. "I haven't slept or eaten in four days," Evelyn Imre said. "I love her. She didn't do anything wrong. It's not clear when the alleged abuse began. The boy's mother said her son visited Imre's house nearly every day for at least a year.

 

Imre would take her daughter and the boy to the neighborhood playground and out to eat at a fast food restaurant. She even took the boy to a mall and would buy him toys and other gifts, according to the boy's mother. The boy and girl rode the school bus together, played board games and rode their bikes. "We were mothers of two children who go to school together," the boy's mother said. "She seemed like a good friend."

 

An investigation began in September after the letter Imre allegedly had written her son had surfaced, police said. The letter indicated Imre's mother would not be home. In the letter, police said Imre told the boy that she doesn't "want anyone but you. Now tomorrow it's supposed to rain, you can come over we can (you know what). Love ya! I want you! Gram is working tomorrow!" She also referred to not taking pills. The boy's mother said she assumes Imre was referring to birth control.

 

When confronted, police said Imre acknowledged having sexual acts with the boy. In the affidavit, Imre describes she and the boy kissing and fondling one another and being in bed together naked. Imre's daughter also told investigators she saw her mother and the boy engage in sexual acts. The boy at first denied kissing or touching Imre, but in subsequent interviews described intercourse with her, according to the affidavit. He also told investigators Imre gave him a key to her apartment.

 

If convicted, Imre could serve more than 20 years in prison.

 

Two bikes were strewn across the yard at the boy's home. Neighbors say he loved to ride his bike. At Imre's home, which is part of a public housing complex in Stratford, a front window remained decorated with a "Happy Halloween" sticker. Two other window stickers promoted an animal assistance fund, urging people to "speak for those who couldn't."

 

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Thank you.

Who in the hell are you to judge anybody's qualifications as a parent? According to your profile you are all of 20 years old. If you are a parent you are just beginning the process and have no clue what you are going to run into in that role. Talk to me in 25 years and maybe you will be qualified to judge someone's parental abilities. Until then, stfu. You don't know s***.

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Who in the hell are you to judge anybody's qualifications as a parent?  According to your profile you are all of 20 years old.  If you are a parent you are just beginning the process and have no clue what you are going to run into in that role.  Talk to me in 25 years and maybe you will be qualified to judge someone's parental abilities.  Until then, stfu.  You don't know s***.

Shut the f*** up? I don't know s***? Wow, I may only be 20, but your retorts don't suggest that maturity and age are correlated. Let me at least explain myself. I feel that if your child, at age eight, doesn't know that having intercourse with friends' mommies is wrong, then you have failed as a parent. I can understand it happening once, but the kid willingly let this go on for months. No morals had been instilled in him. Also, I know if I had a child, I would be extremely careful about which hands I entrusted him in. If you can't find anything odd about a woman who considered the child her "boyfriend" and hoped to "marry him someday" (doesn't suggest appropriate mental health, does it?), then your perception skills are about as deep as the kiddie pool. In a story like this, articles will always portray families as the helpless victims. All of you are so quick to accept that because you fail to realize that this may have actually been due to negligence. I think this could've been prevented.

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Shut the f*** up?  I don't know s***?  Wow, I may only be 20, but your retorts don't suggest that maturity and age are correlated.  Let me at least explain myself.  I feel that if your child, at age eight, doesn't know that having intercourse with friends' mommies is wrong, then you have failed as a parent.  I can understand it happening once, but the kid willingly let this go on for months.  No morals had been instilled in him.  Also, I know if I had a child, I would be extremely careful about which hands I entrusted him in.  If you can't find anything odd about a woman who considered the child her "boyfriend" and hoped to "marry him someday" (doesn't suggest appropriate mental health, does it?), then your perception skills are about as deep as the kiddie pool.  In a story like this, articles will always portray families as the helpless victims.  All of you are so quick to accept that because you fail to realize that this may have actually been due to negligence.  I think this could've been prevented.

I repeat. Shut the f*** up. You still don't know s***. Most 8 year old kids don't have a clue about sex, what it means or what it entails. Sure, there was "something odd" about the perpetrator, but the kid isn't going to know that and it was hidden from the kid's parents.

 

There is no way any 20 year old can have the slightest grasp about what it means to raise a child and the difficulties you face as the child is growing up. This is not about maturity and age, it's about the knowledge one acquires with life's experiences. You don't have that knowledge yet. Until you do, at least on this particular subject, you have no basis to judge anyone as an unfit or bad parent.

 

So stop acting like you actually have a f***ing clue. You don't.

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Yes.  An 8 year old can get an erection.  They are called "baby boners".  It happens.

Oh, I was just asking cause I didn't know.

 

I think it comes down to the fact that Imre has something wrong with her mentally. She obviously doesn't think it is wrong, and "wants a relationship" with him. If I was the vitcims family, I would move away. I know that'd be tough, but it would give the child the best chance to have a normal life.

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She's definitely got something off the hook up there. I think it's safe to say all pedophiles do...

 

If I were his family.. I'd be in jail right now for attempted murder. How this woman called the police over taking care of buisness herself I'll never understand.. she is a much stronger person than I would be.

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Oh, I was just asking cause I didn't know.

 

I think it comes down to the fact that Imre has something wrong with her mentally. She obviously doesn't think it is wrong, and "wants a relationship" with him. If I was the vitcims family, I would move away. I know that'd be tough, but it would give the child the best chance to have a normal life.

That's a helluva concept, asjking when you don't know something as opposed to spouting off when you don't have a clue. I commend you for realizing that as a young adult you don't know all there is to know about everything. Keep that attitude, you will find it to be beneficial to you in the long run. :cheers

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She's definitely got something off the hook up there. I think it's safe to say all pedophiles do...

 

If I were his family.. I'd be in jail right now for attempted murder. How this woman called the police over taking care of buisness herself I'll never understand.. she is a much stronger person than I would be.

Steff, I totally have to agree with you. I'd beat somebody to a bloody pulp, at a minimum, before it went to the police just to be sure that some degree of justice was served. And whatever the consequences of my actions, I'd live with them .... happily.

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Coodies are no laughing matter...the hysteria they cause is paralyzing to any young mans love life.

coodies are never a laughing matter, i was merely pointing out to Knuckle that he still needs to fear them, all men do..

 

btw, great sig

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Steff, I totally have to agree with you.  I'd beat somebody to a bloody pulp, at a minimum,  before it went to the police just to be sure that some degree of justice was served.  And whatever the consequences of my actions, I'd live with them .... happily.

While you're spending those 'happy' years in prison, your sexually abused son would be forced to grow up in a strange, confusing world with no father figure to guide his way. Maybe once I gain this knowledge you speak of, I will understand and be able to parent my future children at your caliber.

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While you're spending those 'happy' years in prison, your sexually abused son would be forced to grow up in a strange, confusing world with no father figure to guide his way.  Maybe once I gain this knowledge you speak of, I will understand and be able to parent my future children at your caliber.

Obviously you have nothing of value to add to the conversation.. and have expressed that these things need not be posted here, in your opinion. So why not just remove yourself from the thread versus intentionally starting s*** with YASNY..

 

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Obviously you have nothing of value to add to the conversation.. and have expressed that these things need not be posted here, in your opinion. So why not just remove yourself from the thread versus intentionally starting s*** with YASNY..

 

:huh

How can you honestly say I started anything with YASNY? I feel that is completely unfair. If anything I defended myself against the s*** he started. Things YASNY said to me BEFORE I took a jab at him:

 

"Shut the f*** up".

"You don't know s***."

"I repeat. Shut the f*** up."

"You still don't know s***."

"You don't have that knowledge yet."

"You have no basis to judge ANYONE as unfit or bad parent." (rediculous).

"Stop acting like you have a f***ing clue. You don't."

 

See? I was going to remove myself, but I think if these judgements were made about you for your OPINION then you might derail things slightly too. I did add something to this conversation anyway. I think there might be some blame to be placed on the boy's parent, and I argued my case. If you don't like it, then so be it. You don't have to chastise me the way YASNY did, or even call me stupid, ignorant, and idiotic like you did Steff. So before you single me out just because I'm one of the few posters who isn't afraid to have a different opinion than you and won't 'totally agree' with everything you say (don't you get tired of it?), I think it's only fair if you and YASNY accept some of the blame as well.

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First.. I didn't call you s***. I called your comments stupid. If you're going to quote me.. get it right.

 

Second.. obvious to anyone above a 2nd grade reading level you have no interest in this topic, as stated.. so why are you bothering to comment? YAS apparently has a strong stance and took offense at your ignorant COMMENTS - and shared by others on the board might I add - and rather than remove yourself from a topic you have no use for, as stated, you continue to make stupid COMMENTS about s*** you don't know about - seeing as how you're not a parent, as stated.

 

 

Finally.. I'm estatic our opinions differ on this matter. I'd be ashamed to blame a victim or their family for any crime committed against them. It's pretty pathetic, IMO.

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I can only begin to wonder what this society is coming to.

 

The Crisis in the church was an example of this...

 

We are of a f***ed up species.

I would hardly call the species "effed up". There is more good than evil in the world...

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