LosMediasBlancas Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Gene Honda Civic @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 04:48 PM) There is no such thing as a no-strings-attached relationship at 13... Hence the post above where I mention sex exactly zero times, and "relationship" multiple times. I understood what you wrote and see your point. I think it depends on the details and on the kid. I don't believe that certain experiences automatically make you 'f***ed'. Nor do I believe everyone needs a shrink to get over s***. If that's the case, we're all 'f***ed'. Just my opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelasDaddy0427 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Gene Honda Civic @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 10:37 AM) It's not true... The kid's f***ed, whether he liked it, was an active pursuer, whatever... He's gonna be messed for life... He'll seek out relationships where he's yields control, or looks for older women, or scours the internet for teacher/student snuff films, or like to dress up as a baby and be diapered, or you get the picture... The one thing he won't be, without a lot of psychological help, is a normal sexually well-adjusted adult who has normal relationships. Those saying that they would have been all for it (Hey I admit I thought the same thing when I first saw it) are doing so with the mind of a old. Remember for a second what it was like to be 13 and in a relationship -- This is gonna be hard for some of you -- This is a time when relationships are measured in hours and days, yet the emotions attached seem greater than anything you've ever experienced before... There's no way a 13yo can mark this relationship as just another notch on the bedpost. It's going to affect him deeply, for years and years. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Right on... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 so let me get this straight.. if a 13 year old has sex with a 13 year old... its fine BUT if a 13 year old has sex with a 27 year old, the kid is f***ed for life?? HMM.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Controlled Chaos Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 When I was in high school we used to open all the windows and freeze, but act like we were hot, just so the french teachers nipples would get hard. I didn't even take french...but I ended up in her classroom on more than one occasion. not so relevant to the topic...but wanted to share Oh I miss high school... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Controlled Chaos @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:28 AM) When I was in high school we used to open all the windows and freeze, but act like we were hot, just so the french teachers nipples would get hard. I didn't even take french...but I ended up in her classroom on more than one occasion. not so relevant to the topic...but wanted to share Oh I miss high school... bah hahahaha... thats awesome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelasDaddy0427 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:25 AM) so let me get this straight.. if a 13 year old has sex with a 13 year old... its fine BUT if a 13 year old has sex with a 27 year old, the kid is f***ed for life?? HMM.. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> No it's not "fine." But there is a much greater chance that the two thirteen year olds would be more on the same level emotionally and it's doubtful one thirteen year old would have that much authority over the other one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:25 AM) so let me get this straight.. if a 13 year old has sex with a 13 year old... its fine BUT if a 13 year old has sex with a 27 year old, the kid is f***ed for life?? HMM.. Maybe in your world. Both are wrong in mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Controlled Chaos @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:28 AM) When I was in high school we used to open all the windows and freeze, but act like we were hot, just so the french teachers nipples would get hard. I didn't even take french...but I ended up in her classroom on more than one occasion. not so relevant to the topic...but wanted to share Oh I miss high school... Boys will be boys... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Steff @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:35 AM) Maybe in your world. Both are wrong in mine. your right.. cept it would be in my TIME, not world Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Jeckle2000 @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:34 AM) No it's not "fine." But there is a much greater chance that the two thirteen year olds would be more on the same level emotionally and it's doubtful one thirteen year old would have that much authority over the other one. Again point me to where it said that the kid was FORCED to do anything or was against his own will in this, I dont recall seeing that anywhere.. And it is fine because when you hear about younger kids having sex you dont say "Well those kids are f***ed" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelasDaddy0427 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:41 AM) Again point me to where it said that the kid was FORCED to do anything or was against his own will in this, I dont recall seeing that anywhere.. And it is fine because when you hear about younger kids having sex you dont say "Well those kids are f***ed" <{POST_SNAPBACK}> A thirteen year old can not fully appriciate the effect of what he's doing. That goes for having sex or going to the movies. Secondly I would say those kids would be "f***ed" up for life but thats just me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Jeckle2000 @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:46 AM) A thirteen year old can not fully appriciate the effect of what he's doing. That goes for having sex or going to the movies. Secondly I would say those kids would be "f***ed" up for life but thats just me. I had sex when I was 13, im fine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:41 AM) Again point me to where it said that the kid was FORCED to do anything or was against his own will in this, I dont recall seeing that anywhere.. And it is fine because when you hear about younger kids having sex you dont say "Well those kids are f***ed" When I heard about those kids that were having oral sex on a school bus and wore color coded bracelettes to signify what they had done... or those "rainbow" parties.. I said "those kids are f***ed". The girls grow up with little or no self respect thinking that it's ok to have multiple partners and that giving blow jobs in public, one after another, is ok. And the boys grow up thinking that's normal and, IMO, leads to sexual agressivness. As to whether the kid, or any molested kid is forced... and I don't know anything about this other than what I've read (thank God) but it seriously damages a person's mind when they lose control and can't decifer between what's right and wrong. Kind of like hanging out with the wrong crowd... it's wrong to rob a liquor store, but when coerced by others it might not seem like a bad idea. That kid wasn't forced to rob the store.. but his life is surely f***ed because of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:48 AM) I had sex when I was 13, im fine That's debatable... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Steff @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:55 AM) That's debatable... haha no its only how you know me from a message board.. you dont hang out with me or know me personally so its a totally different situation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Steff @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:54 AM) When I heard about those kids that were having oral sex on a school bus and wore color coded bracelettes to signify what they had done... or those "rainbow" parties.. I said "those kids are f***ed". The girls grow up with little or no self respect thinking that it's ok to have multiple partners and that giving blow jobs in public, one after another, is ok. And the boys grow up thinking that's normal and, IMO, leads to sexual agressivness. As to whether the kid, or any molested kid is forced... and I don't know anything about this other than what I've read (thank God) but it seriously damages a person's mind when they lose control and can't decifer between what's right and wrong. Kind of like hanging out with the wrong crowd... it's wrong to rob a liquor store, but when coerced by others it might not seem like a bad idea. That kid wasn't forced to rob the store.. but his life is surely f***ed because of it. OK, kids who start little blow job clubs and wear bracelets is a little off from what I was saying.. yeah those kids are f***in weird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:57 AM) haha no its only how you know me from a message board.. you dont hang out with me or know me personally so its a totally different situation Well.. the person I know from this message board is much different than the person I see posting in many of these threads or words to others.. but there's no sense in addressing that issue here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Steff @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 12:01 PM) Well.. the person I know from this message board is much different than the person I see posting in many of these threads or words to others.. but there's no sense in addressing that issue here. no idea what your trying to say but either way.. judging someone from a message board does not = how the really are a message board is basically agree or disagree, pretty much how it goes around here.. you agree there will be those who disagree and you b**** about it.. you disagree there will be those who agree and you b**** about it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 12:08 PM) no idea what your trying to say but either way.. judging someone from a message board does not = how the really are a message board is basically agree or disagree, pretty much how it goes around here.. you agree there will be those who disagree and you b**** about it.. you disagree there will be those who agree and you b**** about it.. You're damn right about that... judging them from bulls*** they hear also applies, IMO. :rolly Now if only people followed that rule. As to what I was referring to.. I was just reminissing over some past PM's.. no big deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Steff @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 12:13 PM) As to what I was referring to.. I was just reminissing over some past PM's.. no big deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gene Honda Civic Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 11:57 AM) haha no its only how you know me from a message board.. you dont hang out with me or know me personally so its a totally different situation Now take off those pants, I think they'd look better on my floor.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gene Honda Civic Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Gene Honda Civic @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 12:16 PM) Now take off those pants, I think they'd look better on my floor.... Uggh -- I didn't realize how bad that looked... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R U Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Gene Honda Civic @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 12:22 PM) Uggh -- I didn't realize how bad that looked... haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mreye Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Man Of Steel @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 12:48 PM) I had sex when I was 13, im fine You just flat our refuse to get this. :headshake Was it with a 27 year old? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mreye Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 QUOTE(Steff @ Feb 10, 2005 -> 01:13 PM) As to what I was referring to.. I was just reminissing over some past PM's.. no big deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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