SoxPride56 Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 OK friends, I need your help. Tommorrow me and my girlfriend will be together for a month and she is the best thing that has ever happend to me, she means the world to me. We were friends for about 6 years before dating so we really know a lot about eachother... but I need your help, I dont no what to do for our one month. I want to do/ get her something nice, but not be to over the top with it and give her the wrong impression since we have only been together for a month. I have been thinking, and thinking about what I should do, but I really havent thought of anything that I like. I am sure no matter what I do for her she will love it since it is from me, but I just want some ideas of what you guys did for your and your girlfriends one month. Any help/ ideas would be very helpful Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 Flowers and a nice card. And not roses. A nice spring mix. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 Take her to a Sox game! Na, a month is special. But you are right, I wouldn't go over the top. How about a Yanke candle or something that invloves her intrests. It sucks, I've been married 7 years and it gets harder and harder to come up with gift ideas. She likes scrapbooking (well she's got all the stuff, she does't really do it) and reading. THAT IS IT. I never know what to get her. Good luck, just don't do the flower thingy, Flowers are so overrated. Just my opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Critic Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 Just go on a nice date and maybe give her a (not too sappy) card. Don't over-do the month thing................because you're setting a precedent............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(spanky @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:02 AM) Good luck, just don't do the flower thingy, Flowers are so overrated. Just my opinion. From a man... <_> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 One month huh? If you go too overboard she will be scared away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southsider2k5 Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 Yeah my six year annivesary is coming up this weekend... maybe I should get her a card? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AssHatSoxFan Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(southsider2k5 @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 10:14 AM) Yeah my six year annivesary is coming up this weekend... maybe I should get her a card? you know what's classy print one of those cards that you can make on your computer...that will show her you care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LosMediasBlancas Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 Nothing. One month is not that long. Just mention it and tell her you've really enjoyed it, but that's enough. Most guys won't even do that. Anything more might freak her out. Be careful that you are not looking at it as a six years plus one month anniversary, cuz it's not. Didn't mean to be buzz kill, but I'll tell ya like it is every time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(LosMediasBlancas @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:39 AM) Nothing. One month is not that long. Just mention it and tell her you've really enjoyed it, but that's enough. Most guys won't even do that. Anything more might freak her out. Be careful that you are not looking at it as a six years plus one month anniversary, cuz it's not. Didn't mean to be buzz kill, but I'll tell ya like it is every time. They've known eachother for 6 years already so they have a history. If this was brand new I'd definitely agree with ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoxPride56 Posted August 1, 2006 Author Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(LosMediasBlancas @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:39 AM) Nothing. One month is not that long. Just mention it and tell her you've really enjoyed it, but that's enough. Most guys won't even do that. Anything more might freak her out. Be careful that you are not looking at it as a six years plus one month anniversary, cuz it's not. Didn't mean to be buzz kill, but I'll tell ya like it is every time. Thanks a lot... thats the responce I wanted, I like when people tell me how it is. I want to do something because she does mean a lot to me, but like you and other people have said, it is only a month. I was thinking just go to dinner and a movie. And just tell her how much I have enjoyed the last month... nothing too special, but just to let her know that I do really care about her QUOTE(Steff @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:44 AM) They've known eachother for 6 years already so they have a history. If this was brand new I'd definitely agree with ya. You have a good point Steff, we have known eachother for a while. I am thinking jsut keeping it simple, dinner and a movie... Is that something you would agree on, or would you still suggest the flowers? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southsider2k5 Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(AssHatSoxFan @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:22 AM) you know what's classy print one of those cards that you can make on your computer...that will show her you care I choo-choo-choose you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(SoxPride56 @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:47 AM) You have a good point Steff, we have known eachother for a while. I am thinking jsut keeping it simple, dinner and a movie... Is that something you would agree on, or would you still suggest the flowers? I'm suggesting a $10 wildflower arrangement from Jewel. Not anything delivered and all that jazz. Dinner and a movie is something I assume you do as part of your relationship so just a little something extra to say "hey.. it's cool were more than friends now". I wouldn't even get a card. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spawn Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 I'd say flowers and a nice dinner. Flowers are never overrated. But don't get roses. Try carnations. Just my 2 cents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mreye Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 I'd say dinner and don't even mention that it's been a month. Let he do it and say how it seems like just a few weeks and you can't believe you're not sick of her yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G&T Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(southsider2k5 @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 09:48 AM) I choo-choo-choose you! You bent my wookie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Prawn Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 Keep it as low-keyed as possible. As mentioned dinner and maybe a flower or two. I mentioned to Brian that on 7/30 or 7/31, it was 6 years since our first date. Only reason I remembered is that a good friend on mine has a birthday on 7/30 lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 1 month shouldnt even be an anniversary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rex Kickass Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(G&T @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 12:35 PM) You bent my wookie. These rubber pants are hot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnB Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 just make sure to do whatever steff says, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chisoxfn Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(SnB @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 11:10 AM) just make sure to do whatever steff says, You know what, next Sox fest I'm going to get Steff a real security guard costume Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steff Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(Chisoxfn @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 01:45 PM) You know what, next Sox fest I'm going to get Steff a real security guard costume LMAO.. it had almost been a full month. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnB Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(Steff @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 01:47 PM) LMAO.. it had almost been a full month. it'll be the last illegal soxfest for this kid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southsider2k5 Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(SnB @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 01:50 PM) it'll be the last illegal soxfest for this kid The end of an era. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sonik22 Posted August 1, 2006 Share Posted August 1, 2006 QUOTE(spawn @ Aug 1, 2006 -> 10:07 AM) I'd say flowers and a nice dinner. Flowers are never overrated. But don't get roses. Try carnations. Just my 2 cents. You should always take your advice from a guy named Spawn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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