Controlled Chaos Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 Wow..this dude is a real benefit to society. Check out full article. Ballplayer's wife: He threatened me, kids Rays' Elijah Dukes is under a restraining order - again. By EDUARDO ENCINA and ABBIE VANSICKLE Published May 23, 2007 Elijah Dukes looks on from the Rays' dugout. He has a history of domestic disputes with his wife, a middle school teacher in Ruskin. NiShea Gilbert, the ex-wife of Elijah Dukes, has a message saved on her cell phone she says Dukes sent her with a photo of a handgun. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- TAMPA - In late April, Tampa Bay Devil Rays outfielder Elijah Dukes barged into his wife's middle school classroom at lunchtime. He was so irate that she ran to get the principal and a deputy, who banned Dukes from the property, records show. His wife, who said she fears for her life, sought a restraining order and told the court it was the latest in a string of outbursts by the 22-year-old rookie player. Dukes' wife, NiShea Gilbert, 26, a teacher at Beth Shields Middle School in Ruskin, told the court in another filing Thursday that her husband threatened to kill her and sent a photo of a handgun to her cell phone. She played the St. Petersburg Times a voice mail message she said was from Dukes: "You dead, dawg," says an angry voice. "I ain't even bulls-------. Your kids, too." Dukes is in his first season with the Devil Rays, and his eight home runs - the most by any American League rookie - speak to his professional promise. But Dukes' personal life is a mess. Twice in the last month, the wife of the Tampa native and former Hillsborough High standout has filed requests for protection against him. A court hearing on her latest request is May 30. "I just don't think I should live in fear," said Gilbert. "When (the Rays) go out of town, I come home. When they're at home, I go stay with my mother. I shouldn't have to live like that because he's a baseball player." Dukes, when approached after batting practice Tuesday evening, declined to discuss the allegations. "I'm just going to play ball, that's it," he said. "I've got to go. I've got a video game to finish." He referred to a statement provided by Rick Vaughn, team vice president. "The end of our marriage is a personal matter for my wife and me," the statement reads. "Out of respect for my family, especially my children, I wish to keep our proceedings private." Andrew Friedman, the team's executive vice president of baseball operations, said he was aware of the marital strife, but he knew nothing about allegations of threats. "I think it's premature to comment on it," he said. "This is the first that we've heard of it. ... The only knowledge we had was that this was a messy divorce. But obviously not the extent that she's stating." After the school incident, Gilbert filed a request for a restraining order. It was dropped when she missed a court hearing. She filed a second request Thursday. In it, she said she missed the hearing because one of her children was in the hospital. She said she has received other death threats in recent weeks, including the message she says Dukes left May 2 on her phone. Here's what the voice on the machine says: "Hey, dawg. It's on, dawg. You dead, dawg. I ain't even bulls-------. Your kids too, dawg. It don't even matter to me who is in the car with you. N-----, all I know is, n-----, when I see your m-----f------- a-- riding, dawg, it's on. As a matter of fact, I'm coming to your m-----f------ house." She also says Dukes called her and told her to check her cell phone. He sent a text message with a photo of a handgun, she said. "Elijah continues to call me telling me he is going to kill me and texting me pictures of a gun," she wrote in her request to the court. "I am scared for my life and my kids' life." However, Gilbert did not call police about those threats, saying she saw the restraining order as an "alternative" way of protecting herself. "People kept telling me it would mess up his career," said Gilbert, who said both family and friends told her not to press charges against Dukes. But deputies have been called four times to deal with the couple's domestic issues, said Hillsborough sheriff's spokeswoman Debbie Carter. In 2003, Gilbert accused Dukes of throwing a remote control at her. In April 2004, she accused him of harassing phone calls. Later that year, she said he hit her with a soda can, threw a glass candy bowl and ripped a phone cord out of the wall when she tried to call 911. In August 2006, deputies arrested Gilbert, accusing her of scratching her husband's back during an argument. The charge was dropped in September. Court records show that Dukes was sentenced to probation in February 2005 for a charge of domestic battery. They also show that Gilbert received a yearlong restraining order against Dukes in October 2004. But the incident involved in those cases was unclear Tuesday. In October 2005, another Tampa woman, Carla Bryant, the mother of Dukes' oldest child, filed for a domestic violence restraining order against Dukes. A judge ordered that he stay away from her for a year. Bryant claimed Dukes threatened her over the phone. Dukes was ordered to attend an anger management course. Reached Tuesday, Bryant declined to say why she filed for protection. She said she was "going through complicated issues" at the time. Her grandfather was ailing. Dukes was trying to be more involved in their daughter's life. "We've resolved an issue that we probably could have dealt with ourselves," Bryant said. "As far as anything domestic, I haven't had any altercations with him recently, and anything in the past, I'd like to leave it there." The pair have a daughter. Bryant had no complaints about Dukes' treatment of the child. Four women have gone to court seeking child support from Dukes. In all four cases, the court found Dukes was the father, meaning he has at least five children by four women. Two of those women were pregnant at the same time, giving birth in 2003 within eight days of each other. Gilbert met Dukes when she was a student in 2003 at the University of South Florida. She filed for child support in March 2004 after the couple's first child was born. He was ordered to pay $222.26 a month. During her second pregnancy, she sought and won a yearlong restraining order against him. A judge ordered him to attend a certified batterers' intervention program and substance abuse evaluation. She noticed little improvement in his behavior, she said. After the child was born, Dukes proposed. The couple married Feb. 27, 2006. They have a 3-year-old son and a daughter nearly 2. Life only got more frustrating after the marriage, she said. "We went to the courthouse in Brandon and got married and things have gone downhill ever since," she said. "My life has been turned upside down since I've been dealing with him." Gilbert once filed for divorce but changed her mind. Now, she says she plans to file for divorce again. On April 30, Gilbert was in her classroom at Shields Middle School when she heard a banging on the door. Her students were at lunch. Another teacher answered the door. "It was Elijah (my husband) coming toward me at my desk stating he was going to beat my a-- and kill me," Gilbert wrote in her request for a restraining order. Dukes later left the room and walked through the school's halls, she wrote. Gilbert and her co-worker ran to the school's front office. "I told them to get the deputy because he was acting out of his mind," she said in an interview. "I told them, 'Just have him escorted off. I don't want him to go to jail. Just make him leave.'" Deputy Theresa Montaldo tried to calm him down. When principal Tom Scott arrived, he admonished Dukes, Gilbert said. Dukes was ordered to leave campus. "Estranged wife is employee," the trespass warning reads. "He came to see her - very irate." Dukes, who grew up in Sulphur Springs, saw his father convicted of second-degree murder when he was 11. Elijah Dukes Sr. received a 20-year prison sentence for shooting a man who sold his wife $100 worth of fake crack cocaine. Dukes, who makes the major-league minimum $380,000, is considered one of the best all-around athletes on the Rays, with a mix of speed and power that some scouts predict could make him one of the game's top players. He made the jump to the majors this season and earned some playing time, then took over as the starting centerfielder when Rocco Baldelli was injured last week. Before he moved up to the major leagues, Dukes had on-field confrontations last season with a coach and a teammate while with Devil Rays' Triple-A affiliate Durham. He was suspended for 30 games. Dukes was charged with misdemeanor marijuana possession during a traffic stop on Jan. 15. A hearing is scheduled for June 4. "He's trying to act like he's made a change," Gilbert said. "He's made no changes. He's gotten worse. He says that since he plays baseball, 'No one can f--- with me.'" Dukes' agent, Scott Pucino, questioned Gilbert's motives in making allegations against the athlete. "I don't know those to be true," Pucino said. "I do know I think she is clearly using the media to leverage this divorce proceeding. There's money involved, and unfortunately she's going to the media." But Pucino and the Devil Rays both says Dukes' behavior has improved. "He has made a lot of strides, but obviously this is something that certainly requires our attention," Friedman, of the Rays, said. Times researchers Cathy Wos and John Martin and staff writers Marc Topkin and Kevin Graham contributed to this report. Fast Facts: Elijah Dukes' children Date of birth Mother Gender Nov. 25, 2003 NiShea Gilbert boy Dec. 3, 2003 Carla Bryant girl June 7, 2004 Shantell Mitchell boy June 16, 2005 NiShea Gilbert girl July 19, 2006 Porcia Daniels girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigSqwert Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Kalapse @ May 25, 2007 -> 09:54 AM) I'm more confused as to why the fat f*** from the NFL Network is now stealing Elijah Dukes' psychopathic ideas. Can't Jamie think of an original way to threaten his wife? Heh. I was going to say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 Im sure she has done some messed up s*** to him as well. If there is this situation, and she has just now come forward, and she has also been arrested for violence, usually there are two sides. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southsider2k5 Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(RockRaines @ May 25, 2007 -> 10:19 AM) Im sure she has done some messed up s*** to him as well. If there is this situation, and she has just now come forward, and she has also been arrested for violence, usually there are two sides. And none of it justifies what Dukes threatened, and has done to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Controlled Chaos Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(RockRaines @ May 25, 2007 -> 10:19 AM) Im sure she has done some messed up s*** to him as well. If there is this situation, and she has just now come forward, and she has also been arrested for violence, usually there are two sides. It looks to me like he has a pretty steady pattern of repeated violence. And she has been coming forward since 2003. Of course, like most domestic violence situations...she stayed in the relationship. I'm sure she isn't a saint...but this guy is a POS and if he doesn't get rehabilitated someone will wind up dead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(southsider2k5 @ May 25, 2007 -> 10:27 AM) And none of it justifies what Dukes threatened, and has done to her. Nobody said it did. But trash flocks to trash, and I wont make her out to be a saint like many will. This is a tale as old as time, and can been seen in its entirety across the country. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigSqwert Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(RockRaines @ May 25, 2007 -> 10:19 AM) Im sure she has done some messed up s*** to him as well. How are you so sure of this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(BigSqwert @ May 25, 2007 -> 11:06 AM) How are you so sure of this? Besides the fact that she has been charged in the past as well? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
South Side Fireworks Man Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Brian @ May 25, 2007 -> 09:30 AM) I don't get the connection to Guillen. I doubt Guillen ever threatened someone's life like that. I don't see any connection to Guillen either. Anyway, how does Dukes threatening someone's life make Guillen look like a loser? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhiteSoxfan1986 Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Controlled Chaos @ May 25, 2007 -> 09:55 AM) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Fast Facts: Elijah Dukes' children Date of birth Mother Gender Nov. 25, 2003 NiShea Gilbert boy Dec. 3, 2003 Carla Bryant girl June 7, 2004 Shantell Mitchell boy June 16, 2005 NiShea Gilbert girl July 19, 2006 Porcia Daniels girl Dude needs to learn what a condom is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerbaho-WG Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(southsider2k5 @ May 24, 2007 -> 01:25 PM) Yeah, you are right. I know anytime I want to tell my wife I love her, I leave her a message telling her that I am going to f***ing kill her and the f***ing kids. I mean you could go get a Hallmark card, but a message on her cellphone is so much more effective. If you read more attentively, you'd notice that Dukes has not been confirmed as leaving the message. But, f*** it, he fits the black ghetto stereotype so we might as well just throw benefit of the doubt out the window. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heads22 Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Gregory Pratt @ May 24, 2007 -> 10:05 AM) Isn't he the guy who shoved Sean Tracey down? I really hope someone from our team cracks him with a fastball. Like Freddy with Young last year, except more deserved. Danks looks like a guy who wouldn't be afraid to hit a guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juddling Posted May 25, 2007 Author Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Cerbaho-WG @ May 25, 2007 -> 08:37 PM) If you read more attentively, you'd notice that Dukes has not been confirmed as leaving the message. But, f*** it, he fits the black ghetto stereotype so we might as well just throw benefit of the doubt out the window. i don't exactly hear the denials flying from his lawyers either. That doesn't comfirm anything but hell...considering his past if he truly didn't do it, he would be denying like crazy....not worried about his video game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Texsox Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Alpha Dog @ May 24, 2007 -> 01:10 PM) The Sox have enough hard throwers that a bruising could easily happen. Hell, with as wild as MacDougal has been lately, he can even claim it was an accident! Hell if he doesn't hit him they could claim he *was* throwing at him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregory Pratt Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 QUOTE(Heads22 @ May 25, 2007 -> 04:27 PM) Danks looks like a guy who wouldn't be afraid to hit a guy. I think all of our starters are guys who'll drill someone, although I'm not sure about Contreras (I'm guessing he would) and I know that Garland didn't hit the Rangers last year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southsider2k5 Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 QUOTE(Cerbaho-WG @ May 25, 2007 -> 03:37 PM) If you read more attentively, you'd notice that Dukes has not been confirmed as leaving the message. But, f*** it, he fits the black ghetto stereotype so we might as well just throw benefit of the doubt out the window. Funny, he didn't deny it... Plus its not like the guy has a history of abuse and violence or anything that might give a more accurate picture of someone being prone to violence, versus a lame ass attempt at the race card. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitesoxfan101 Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 (edited) So we're going to turn a guy who left a voicemail for his wife threatening to kill her and their kid and who has had 5 kids with 3 women and a long history of legal problems a victim for racism because he's black? HA, I love ignorance. Edited May 31, 2007 by whitesoxfan101 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RME JICO Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 Dukes might become even more available after this: A 17-year-old foster girl living with a relative of Elijah Dukes told police the Devil Rays outfielder got her pregnant. Detectives believe the sex was consensual and no crime was commited, but the incident has sparked a state investigation into the foster home. http://www.sptimes.com/2007/06/12/Rays/Tee...got_me_pr.shtml Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregory Pratt Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 Why on Earth would we want him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChWRoCk2 Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 QUOTE(Gregory Pratt @ Jun 12, 2007 -> 09:11 PM) Why on Earth would we want him? Id only want him because hes talented. Of course he has attitude problems and other things but if he can make some changes your looking at a stud. But lets face the facts, beyond AJ KW wont take a chance on another problem player in the dugout. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregory Pratt Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 AJ is a pain in the ass. Nothing worse. Dukes is a garbage human being. No thanks. His closest comparables -- oh, Barrett, Everett, Sheffield -- are nowhere near as bad as he is. Elijah Dukes is his own special monster. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witesoxfan Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 I don't think a court order could make the White Sox trade for Elijah Dukes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregory Pratt Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 He'd probably still be pretty expensive. TB is nuts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chisoxfn Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 QUOTE(Gregory Pratt @ Jun 12, 2007 -> 07:26 PM) AJ is a pain in the ass. Nothing worse. Dukes is a garbage human being. No thanks. His closest comparables -- oh, Barrett, Everett, Sheffield -- are nowhere near as bad as he is. Elijah Dukes is his own special monster. Carl Everett does not deserve to be up there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregory Pratt Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 Well, yeah, that was the point I was making. I listed a few guys who are perceived to be "trouble" and said, "He's nothing like these guys. Whereas they're loudmouths at worst, he's a potential killer and a thug and an idiot." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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