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QUOTE (Rowand44 @ Jan 19, 2015 -> 07:37 PM)
Ya, if a girl cheats once, she'll most likely cheat again.

 

It's funny though as I recently had to deal with a semi similar situation at my club. There's a girl I work with who I do really like but have made myself stay away from because she has a kid(she is single though). Her and I have become very good friends though so I kind of get dragged into her drama which there's been a lot of. Anywho, her dumbass started sleeping with a married man who is a member at our club. Well to no one's surprise, that s*** blew up in her face and she almost lost her job because of it. Who knew working at a gym would be like a Soap Opera?

 

I don't necessarily believe she'll most likely cheat, but that she's capable of cheating. That creates immediate trust issues in a relationship. They can be resolved too, and to cover up cheating you almost have to think like a criminal so as to cover your tracks.

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QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 09:46 AM)
I don't necessarily believe she'll most likely cheat, but that she's capable of cheating. That creates immediate trust issues in a relationship. They can be resolved too, and to cover up cheating you almost have to think like a criminal so as to cover your tracks.

 

Everyone is capable of cheating, we're human, and when it comes to sex, our entire species is very primal by nature. It's a flaw feature built into all of us to assure our survival. The being said, what we have over many other forms of life is the ability to think and reason, and therefore CHOOSE to NOT listen to those urges/thoughts/feelings due to the rules we've accepted as a civilized society.

 

Just because a person cheated in the past doesn't mean they'll cheat again in the future, or do so any easier than a person that's never cheated before.

 

My personal opinion on the subject is this would be inviting a LOT of drama into your life, and nobody wants the kind of drama around them.

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QUOTE (LittleHurt05 @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 12:21 PM)
This was gonna be my advice. Go ahead and have some fun, just don't get involved with anything serious cause she may be cray-cray

 

Yea, I'm gonna go ahead and disagree with you here.

 

You don't stick your dick in drama, and don't stick your dick in cray, there are ALWAYS better options.

 

IF something out of the ordinary happens and you impregnate Miss Drama or Miss Cray, you'll get to spend the rest of your life wishing for that 2-20 minutes back. ;)

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QUOTE (Y2HH @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 10:31 AM)
Yea, I'm gonna go ahead and disagree with you here.

 

You don't stick your dick in drama, and don't stick your dick in cray, there are ALWAYS better options.

 

IF something out of the ordinary happens and you impregnate Miss Drama or Miss Cray, you'll get to spend the rest of your life wishing for that 2-20 minutes back. ;)

Well he didn't seem to like that advice.

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QUOTE (Brian @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 12:15 PM)
Thank you all for your lack of help. Ha

 

i think you want us to tell you to go for it, and you know that its a messed up situation and has a good chance in you ending up messed up because of it.

 

I would say stay away until the dust settles with everything she has going on, if you get tangled up in that is could go to FUBAR pretty quickly

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