witesoxfan Posted December 19, 2012 Author Share Posted December 19, 2012 QUOTE (knightni @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 01:50 PM) Inception? Good lord no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reddy Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 03:02 PM) Good lord no the sexy version of inception? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witesoxfan Posted December 19, 2012 Author Share Posted December 19, 2012 QUOTE (Reddy @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 02:08 PM) the sexy version of inception? GAAH Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 02:09 PM) GAAH "the dream" text is a ask for sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witesoxfan Posted December 19, 2012 Author Share Posted December 19, 2012 (edited) QUOTE (RockRaines @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 03:21 PM) "the dream" text is a ask for sex. Well I'd still hit it, but she lives in Seattle and is working in Florida at the moment. It's not worth that much. Edited December 19, 2012 by witesoxfan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 10:55 AM) The ex texted me last night and said she had a dream about me. LOL Open and honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockRaines Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 I've gotten that a few times over the last few years and every time I respond with, sounds like a nightmare, glad I didnt have that dream. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Y2HH Posted December 20, 2012 Share Posted December 20, 2012 QUOTE (Jake @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 03:38 PM) Open and honest. Also known as "the tease". Or the, "I want some attention". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyCaucasian Posted December 20, 2012 Share Posted December 20, 2012 QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Dec 19, 2012 -> 03:33 PM) Well I'd still hit it, but she lives in Seattle and is working in Florida at the moment. It's not worth that much. I see sexting in your future.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witesoxfan Posted December 20, 2012 Author Share Posted December 20, 2012 QUOTE (Athomeboy_2000 @ Dec 20, 2012 -> 08:14 AM) I see sexting in your future.... Not when she is 1500 miles away with a boyfriend of 2 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyCaucasian Posted December 20, 2012 Share Posted December 20, 2012 QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Dec 20, 2012 -> 08:21 AM) Not when she is 1500 miles away with a boyfriend of 2 years oh, well, that wold cause a problem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reddy Posted December 20, 2012 Share Posted December 20, 2012 QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Dec 20, 2012 -> 09:21 AM) Not when she is 1500 miles away with a boyfriend of 2 years guess someone's getting bored and sees you as a safe way to get her kicks since the two of you can't ACTUALLY hook up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witesoxfan Posted December 20, 2012 Author Share Posted December 20, 2012 QUOTE (Athomeboy_2000 @ Dec 20, 2012 -> 08:28 AM) oh, well, that wold cause a problem Little bit. Plus, I want absolutely nothing to do with her. I have no problem talking to her, but that does not mean I want to talk to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Anyone ever go out with a girl and feel like she isn't being herself or is trying to hard? Does that make sense? Or does this girl actually dig me? Odd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farmteam Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 QUOTE (Brian @ Jan 23, 2013 -> 07:55 PM) Anyone ever go out with a girl and feel like she isn't being herself or is trying to hard? Does that make sense? Or does this girl actually dig me? Odd. It makes sense; I know what you mean. In my experience, it usually means they do indeed dig you; they're so worried about impressing you they act like something they're not. It can be awkward to get them to act like themselves though (or just happens over time...depends), and sometimes it just doesn't work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pettie4sox Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 I have a pretty delicate situation. Here's the story: I have been dating a woman for a year and couple of months now. She is a really sweet girl and I like her. However a week ago, I met a new woman by coincidence and we started talking. I have so much more in common with this girl and we connected really fast. I am started to have feelings for this girl and I am already feel like it's tearing me up inside. I like my girlfriend a lot but I wasn't aware that I was so vulnerable to a new woman swooping in like this. I'm not sure if this post is too vague for a response but if anyone needs any clarification, I'll be had to shed a light on it. Thanks in advance for the responses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamshack Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Feb 3, 2013 -> 12:12 PM) I have a pretty delicate situation. Here's the story: I have been dating a woman for a year and couple of months now. She is a really sweet girl and I like her. However a week ago, I met a new woman by coincidence and we started talking. I have so much more in common with this girl and we connected really fast. I am started to have feelings for this girl and I am already feel like it's tearing me up inside. I like my girlfriend a lot but I wasn't aware that I was so vulnerable to a new woman swooping in like this. I'm not sure if this post is too vague for a response but if anyone needs any clarification, I'll be had to shed a light on it. Thanks in advance for the responses. How old are you? How did you happen to meet this new woman? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IlliniKrush Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Feb 3, 2013 -> 11:12 AM) I have a pretty delicate situation. Here's the story: I have been dating a woman for a year and couple of months now. She is a really sweet girl and I like her. However a week ago, I met a new woman by coincidence and we started talking. I have so much more in common with this girl and we connected really fast. I am started to have feelings for this girl and I am already feel like it's tearing me up inside. I like my girlfriend a lot but I wasn't aware that I was so vulnerable to a new woman swooping in like this. I'm not sure if this post is too vague for a response but if anyone needs any clarification, I'll be had to shed a light on it. Thanks in advance for the responses. If your gut says the new girl is it, time to be honest and cut ties with the old one before it becomes really hurtful. If you're having that strong of feelings for another girl, it doesn't appear to me that you like/love the first one that much. Do you see long-term potential in the first one? I'm not sure how old you are or what you're looking for, but somewhere that has to be in the back of your mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pettie4sox Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 I'm not sure why my age is relevant per se but I'm 27. I met her at work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pettie4sox Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 QUOTE (IlliniKrush @ Feb 3, 2013 -> 01:31 PM) If your gut says the new girl is it, time to be honest and cut ties with the old one before it becomes really hurtful. If you're having that strong of feelings for another girl, it doesn't appear to me that you like/love the first one that much. Do you see long-term potential in the first one? I'm not sure how old you are or what you're looking for, but somewhere that has to be in the back of your mind. Illinikrush how can you forget me man? Sox and Tigers last game of the season! That was me you were sitting next to LMAO. Here's the thing. I thought I saw long term potential until it donned on me we don't share many common interests. That's what this new girl brought to the table. She's not a co-worker she just works at the same university. My current girlfriend is great but she's just missing that X factor. Now I'm aware that this might be sheer infatuation with this new girl and I'm not trying to base a decision on that impulse. I know that if I keep seeing both women that's the epitome of having my cake and eating it. I'm trying to nip it at the bud before I get into the "player" territory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IlliniKrush Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Feb 3, 2013 -> 03:52 PM) Illinikrush how can you forget me man? Sox and Tigers last game of the season! That was me you were sitting next to LMAO. Here's the thing. I thought I saw long term potential until it donned on me we don't share many common interests. That's what this new girl brought to the table. She's not a co-worker she just works at the same university. My current girlfriend is great but she's just missing that X factor. Now I'm aware that this might be sheer infatuation with this new girl and I'm not trying to base a decision on that impulse. I know that if I keep seeing both women that's the epitome of having my cake and eating it. I'm trying to nip it at the bud before I get into the "player" territory. I remember you, just didn't know how old you are... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamshack Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Feb 3, 2013 -> 03:41 PM) I'm not sure why my age is relevant per se but I'm 27. I met her at work. Well, the older you are and the more dating experience you have, the better you tend to get at understanding your feelings and what works and doesn't work for you in relationships. I know for a fact that I have learned a lot from past experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Y2HH Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Feb 3, 2013 -> 03:41 PM) I'm not sure why my age is relevant per se but I'm 27. I met her at work. Say nothing beyond this. Stop. Do not pass go on this one. Don't get involved with people you work with or at the same company as...it's never a good idea. And the reason you feel the way you do is because she's new...and your using this "common interests" excuse to justify it, it has nothing to do with these interests...it has to do with her being new/different from what you have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pettie4sox Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 (edited) QUOTE (Y2HH @ Feb 4, 2013 -> 08:54 AM) Say nothing beyond this. Stop. Do not pass go on this one. Don't get involved with people you work with or at the same company as...it's never a good idea. And the reason you feel the way you do is because she's new...and your using this "common interests" excuse to justify it, it has nothing to do with these interests...it has to do with her being new/different from what you have. OK if you looked at one of my previous post I said it very well could be sheer infatuation. You sound pretty confident about how I feel about this situation. LMAO. I understand that getting involved with a co-worker is bad news bears but isn't this case a tad bit different? Universities are huge and although I may know what department she works in it's cross campus. Edited February 4, 2013 by pettie4sox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chisoxfn Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 At my company dating a coworker is pretty common place given the sheer size of the Company and the fact that you wont' work with that person on any projects (firm policy). Met my wife at work and violated my own personal rule. Can't complain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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