The Bathroom Dilemma

[greg775]

Good lord, Greg, try to have some empathy for others. You are saying their mere existence around you is a personal affront.

 

Imagine if you had a burn or disability and had others avoiding you and saying the same about you? The person didn't hop in the car with you, they were just trying to order a sandwich.

I guess I have to work on it. I was just getting out of my car and saw the guy with the heels several strides ahead of me and my taste buds said 'not here; not now.'

[lostfan]

Greg would hate Vegas and New Orleans, lol

A dude in high heels wouldn't even turn head on bourbon street

[StrangeSox]

Activities where Greg finds sexual attraction to be relevant: using the bathroom, eating sandwiches.

[southsider2k5]

Activities where Greg finds sexual attraction to be relevant: using the bathroom, eating sandwiches.

 

Maybe greg likes foot longs?

[greg775]

Maybe greg likes foot longs?

Uh oh in a politically correct charged environment like soxtalk that is a risque joke. I can't believe people are jumping on me for not being crazy about standing in line and eating next to some guy in a dress and heels. The guy is not pulling off well being a woman and I'm not all that interested in being around somebody who is making me uncomfortable at dinnertime.

[Kyyle23]

Uh oh in a politically correct charged environment like soxtalk that is a risque joke. I can't believe people are jumping on me for not being crazy about standing in line and eating next to some guy in a dress and heels. The guy is not pulling off well being a woman and I'm not all that interested in being around somebody who is making me uncomfortable at dinnertime.

 

quit acting like you are being forced to hold hands with the guy. All you had to do was stand there for 3 minutes and order your food and leave. Maybe you should try pulling off being a man and deal with it

[Iwritecode]

I'm sorry. I was grossed out and freaked out. He had high heels was stumbling in them. Was obviously a guy. Had a dress. Can I help it that I like women, not men, and looking at the guy at that time made me not want to eat? He mighta been the nicest guy in the world, but I can't be willing to be nice 100 percent of the time. Seeing the guy brought all sorts of images of what might be wrong with him.

 

That last line is pretty offensive. There's nothing "wrong" with the guy. He's different from you, but so is everyone else. There's no "wrong" way to live your life.

[RockRaines]

Maybe greg likes foot longs?

Winnah

[Dick Allen]

Uh oh in a politically correct charged environment like soxtalk that is a risque joke. I can't believe people are jumping on me for not being crazy about standing in line and eating next to some guy in a dress and heels. The guy is not pulling off well being a woman and I'm not all that interested in being around somebody who is making me uncomfortable at dinnertime.

If you had a kid or a family member or a close friend decide he wanted to live as a woman, would you cut ties? Being afraid to stand in line behind someone is really kind of out there. If the guy hadn't bathed in a week and really smelled, I could see where you wouldn't want to be around that while ordering a sandwich. Or if he or she was doing disgusting things. But wearing a dress? You need to buck up.

[Texsox]

I don't understand what you're saying.

 

I keep hearing that people are afraid of their children being molested if the laws are changed.

[Texsox]

I guess I have to work on it. I was just getting out of my car and saw the guy with the heels several strides ahead of me and my taste buds said 'not here; not now.'

 

A lot of women feel that way when men hit on them. It's interesting the reaction guys have to people they perceive as having an unwanted sexual attraction to them.

[pettie4sox]

lol greg you're trolling! In 2016, you're worried about a guy in high heels?

 

He could have lost a bet or whatever.

 

Next, why are going to subway? Subway sucks and so does your taste.

[Texsox]

lol greg you're trolling! In 2016, you're worried about a guy in high heels?

 

He could have lost a bet or whatever.

 

Next, why are going to subway? Subway sucks and so does your taste.

 

6" cold cut combo on flatbread with avocado and spinach.

[greg775]

Soxtalk is a very liberal forum. There are a lot of people who probably agree with me, that the sight of a guy in drag as you say wouldn't be somewhat concerting/alarming/distasteful. A lot of guys aren't into that.

 

http://www.sheknows.com/living/articles/11...target-bathroom

 

I can't believe in the 2016, in the age of protective parents, agreeing to let guys with male body parts in the same restroom with females. But I'm bad for saying that.

Edited May 6, 2016 by greg775

[Kyyle23]

Soxtalk is a very liberal forum. There are a lot of people who probably agree with me, that the sight of a guy in drag as you say wouldn't be somewhat concerting/alarming/distasteful. A lot of guys aren't into that.

 

Once again, YOU DONT HAVE TO BE "into that". Just treat the person like a human, and go about your business.

[StrangeSox]

Soxtalk is a very liberal forum. There are a lot of people who probably agree with me, that the sight of a guy in drag as you say wouldn't be somewhat concerting/alarming/distasteful. A lot of guys aren't into that.

 

http://www.sheknows.com/living/articles/11...target-bathroom

 

I can't believe in the 2016, in the age of protective parents, agreeing to let guys with male body parts in the same restroom with females. But I'm bad for saying that.

 

uh what do you think that article is saying?

[illinilaw08]

Soxtalk is a very liberal forum. There are a lot of people who probably agree with me, that the sight of a guy in drag as you say wouldn't be somewhat concerting/alarming/distasteful. A lot of guys aren't into that.

 

http://www.sheknows.com/living/articles/11...target-bathroom

 

I can't believe in the 2016, in the age of protective parents, agreeing to let guys with male body parts in the same restroom with females. But I'm bad for saying that.

 

Right now, your posts are bad because you are saying that the mere sight of a man in drag, let alone a transgendered person, so offended you that you wouldn't stand in line near that person to get a sandwich.

 

The implication of that post is that you do not respect that person's right to be out in public, period, because their very existence is offensive to you. That is objectively a bad thing.

 

Also, second the post from SS re: what you think that link says.

[lostfan]

Soxtalk is a very liberal forum. There are a lot of people who probably agree with me, that the sight of a guy in drag as you say wouldn't be somewhat concerting/alarming/distasteful. A lot of guys aren't into that.

 

http://www.sheknows.com/living/articles/11...target-bathroom

 

I can't believe in the 2016, in the age of protective parents, agreeing to let guys with male body parts in the same restroom with females. But I'm bad for saying that.

That article doesn't support your point - it's arguing that the people making these new rules and enforcing them are the true weirdos.

[Kyyle23]

I actually had an experience with this a few months ago.

 

My LAAAAAADY and I would go to this same bar on Tuesday nights for dinner and we knew the bartender pretty well. One day, this dude in a black dress and heels comes in with shoulders like a linebacker. Bartender comes up to us, "This freak show has been coming here a few times week looking for dudes. He even got this one weird guy last week." 20 minutes later, my LAAAAAADY goes to the bathroom and this dude follows her in there. I check to see which bathroom he goes in and of course it's the ladies room. I have to admit, I was less perturbed because of the fact that the bartender told me he was trying to pick up guys but it was a pretty weird situation for me.

 

Do you have long flowing black locks?

[caulfield12]

http://www.sheknows.com/living/articles/11...target-bathroom

 

This Target story sounds "too perfect" in a sense...but interesting take nonetheless.

 

Oops, saw where Greg already picked up on it, but surprised because it doesn't support his argument necessarily.

Edited May 6, 2016 by caulfield12

[Y2Jimmy0]

This thread is fantastic.

[Y2Jimmy0]

Soxtalk is a very liberal forum. There are a lot of people who probably agree with me, that the sight of a guy in drag as you say wouldn't be somewhat concerting/alarming/distasteful. A lot of guys aren't into that.

 

http://www.sheknows.com/living/articles/11...target-bathroom

 

I can't believe in the 2016, in the age of protective parents, agreeing to let guys with male body parts in the same restroom with females. But I'm bad for saying that.

 

 

Being able to order a sandwich next to someone that looks different than you doesn't make someone liberal. It makes them a decent f***ing human. Good lord. Also, I must have missed where a bathroom and locker room is the same thing. Two very different places.

[greg775]

That article doesn't support your point - it's arguing that the people making these new rules and enforcing them are the true weirdos.

I truly can't believe that in 2016 we actually are allowing human beings with male body parts to go in a female restroom if the human being with male body parts "identifies as a woman." All the wacko crimes in America today .... the protective parent generation where they won't take their eyes off their kids for 20 seconds and we are all for letting a human being with male body parts into a restroom with women/girls, whatever.

I truly don't get our country anymore. And I can't believe I am the one who looks bad here.

 

Look to me it's simple. If you have male body parts you gotta use the men's room. Sorry but that seems very basic to me.

Edited May 7, 2016 by greg775

[Quin]

We should give trans-gendered people their own Subway lines. Separate but equal sandwiches for all!

[greg775]

You guys act like I yelled at the man who was dressed as a woman or tripped him or did something disgusting. All I did was choose to not follow him in Subway and get in line behind him.

 

This site is very liberal, I stand by that, when you are in favor of having a person with male body parts going into a bathroom with full blooded women. It's different when the person transitions and has his male body part removed, etc. Just because you envision yourself a woman doesn't give you the right to bring your male body part into a women's safe haven.